I wanted to wish you happy holidays in this period, which can be difficult for many. This time spent with family can also cause anecdotes that only people with a good sense of humor will laugh instead of cry.
I also invite you to tell me some fun facts, fun ... or even shocking and hurtful to you being around friends and family arrived.
(The picture comes From Awkward Family Photo Holiday Photo Contest ... it's worth it!)
Moreover, a journalist recently asked me if childfree loved Christmas. I replied without hesitation that my Christmas, I liked, but everyone had a little opinion on it. Coming from a small family, my wake have always been very quiet, no children running around, screaming, laughing or crying without drunk uncle, without bitter old aunt asked me why I chose an unhappy life without child. In short for me, Christmas is an evening spent with my mother and I love my spouse, to eat small bites, drink lots of bubbles and unwrap gifts. How can we not love it? For me, Christmas is the class is quiet and relaxing.
few years ago, I saw a Christmas cons by typical Quebecois in the family of my spouse, with a dozen people, turkey, a Christmas cake, children, grandparents ... short, the whole shebang. And I was frightened. Even as I had an attack of anxiety, because they have never experienced anything like this before.
So I understand why some childfree like me who have trouble comfortable with children and do not know what to do, may not love the big family party.
I also met other childfree that, even if they do not want children, love their family, children and other Tripente stiff ben (translation for my European readers: great fun).
short, the childfree are divided over Christmas. That is why I invite you to share with me your feelings about the holidays and especially amusing anecdotes (or not) that happened to you in this time of year.
With that, here Best wishes for 2011: that our society gaga for babies a bit disillusioned and understand a child, it can be cute, but it's not a god either, and that our decision not to have children is more understood and therefore we are considered less (e) s and criticized (e) s.
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